You asked about FERTILITY and DATING and the MATCHMAKER answered...

You asked about FERTILITY and DATING and the MATCHMAKER answered...

I just entered a new relationship. I feel really lucky to be connecting with such a wonderful guy however he is wounded from a past relationship and although my enthusiasm is reciprocated, he is still cautious and keeps on insisting we take things slow.

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You asked about PORN ADDICTION and this MATCHMAKER answered...

You asked about PORN ADDICTION and this MATCHMAKER answered...

My husband of a couple of years has developed an ultimately too comfortable rapport with me and feels at ease to share his porn collection and include me in what I believe is a borderline addiction. At first I tried to be a "cool wife" but it seems that permissive attitude has backfired because porn has taken a front seat in our intimate life. How can I change this? 

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You asked about UNEXPECTED PREGNANCY and this MATCHMAKER answered...

You asked about UNEXPECTED PREGNANCY and this MATCHMAKER answered...

My boyfriend and I have been dating seriously for two over years. We are both ambitious young professionals in our early 30s and until recently I was convinced he was the man of my dreams and we were destined for a walk down the aisle soon. I skipped my menstrual cycle last month and discovered that I was pregnant.

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You asked us about CONVERSION and this MATCHMAKER answered...

You asked us about CONVERSION and this MATCHMAKER answered...

Last week my boyfriend's mother took me for lunch and asked me to convert. I was appalled and offended. I am Jewish and although I am not practicing, I feel connected to the Jewish tradition and I know it would deeply hurt my family if I ever chose to reject my faith and take on anew one.

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You asked us about STILL BEING SINGLE and this MATCHMAKER answered...

You asked us about STILL BEING SINGLE and this MATCHMAKER answered...

I'm 37, attractive, successful and still SINGLE. Coming from a close-knit Jewish community where every milestone is family-centric,  I often feel alienated, isolated and as if I will die single. Every "Soon By You" and "You're next" blessing feels like a curse. Will it ever really be my turn or should I start collecting cats and embrace full spinster status?

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You asked us about AGE and this MATCHMAKER answered...

You asked us about AGE and this MATCHMAKER answered...

I recently turned 51 and my priorities in life have shifted. After a lifetime of bachelorhood and career-oriented pursuits, I want to get married and have children. I know this is only possible with a woman much younger than me. Am I being selfish or unrealistic? 

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